What to do now?

I am trying to assert my independence and pursue my life without a partner and not to try to fill that spot with just anyone. To actually be strong and happy alone, to do so I must actually make a life for myself. No idea where to start so I thought I'd start with my new years resolutions:

* Accept the aging process BORING
* Stop treating myself like I am poor done
* Learn to tell stories better this could be alright
* Try 40 days of yoga ooo i started yoga but i dont love it so thats a no
* Lose 25lbs this is a possibility but i'm kinda looking for something fun
* Lower my debt to less then $5000 in the process
* Learn to play the piano possible
* Meditate daily lame
* Let go of anxiety thats starting to happen
* Become a fastidious cleaner wow, did i forget who i am while i wrote this?
* Learn to sew hmm yes this could be interesting
* Become more self-disciplined i was obviously delusional when i wrote this
* Take a university class done
* Develop stronger confidence and belief in my ability and path story of my life

i think i'm looking for something more exciting, not just a skill or behavior, something larger, something inspiring ie. one day i want to build myself a house, maybe i could start on something much larger like this. or writing 300 songs or writing a book...something larger